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#SelfCareForAllMamas: 10 Affordable Ways to Love Yourself Through Self-Care

I’ll be the first to admit, I don’t dedicate enough time to just being with myself and loving myself as I should. With the responsibilities of motherhood, being a wife, a business owner, and keeping house, there is little time left for me to spread my wings and be just me. I know how important self-care is but the struggle is real to just catch a few moments to love on myself as I should.

As women, we are very powerful in our abilities to shape our families and care for all of those around us. We give 1000% of ourselves to everything and everyone, often times leaving us feeling run down or at the very worst, burnt out. Today, I vow that we stop the madness and take charge of loving ourselves, caring for ourselves, and giving 1000% to our self-care!

A few days ago I had to have a serious conversation with myself. You know the kind where you’re standing in the mirror talking to yourself. Y’all do know it right? I’m not the only one who talks to myself, am I? So yeah, I was talking to myself and noticed that I had bags under my eyes, my complexion was a bit dull, and my hair needed to be done, badly. It was in that moment that I realized my life had become consumed with caring for everyone else and I had no time left for myself. I made a promise to myself right then that I would challenge myself to do something just for me everyday. Every, single day!

I want you awesome superwomen to do the same. Now I know that affordability is a major concern. It is for me too, as I am focused on our debt repayment plan. So I thought long and hard about ways that I could give myself a daily self-care moment without breaking the bank. I’ve dubbed this the #SelfCareForAllMamas Challenge. For the next 30 days, I want us to make a promise to ourselves that we will take 30 minutes a day to love ourselves. You don’t have to leave the house if you choose not to, and for most of these you won’t even have to spend a dime.

Take a look at these 10 Affordable Ways to Love Yourself Through Self-care:


1. Ditch the shower for a bath

I know how quick and easy it is to take a shower and get right back to your daily routine. Give yourself a change of pace and take a warm bath instead. Add rose petals, milk, or even a bit of massage oil to the tub and soak away your stress.

2. Read a book

Check out the NY Times Best Seller List for some suggestions on great reads. Make sure that the book you choose is strictly for pleasure. Remember, this is time to relax, relate, release.

3. Take an evening stroll

You don’t have to travel far. Simply, head outside in the evening and go for a short walk. Sunset walks are awesome!

4. Hide out in the closet with your fav snack

Yes, I did say the closet. It’s my personal fav for grabbing some me time. I head right in there with my Snicker’s bars and take a load off.

5. Read the latest post from a new blog

If you love to read like I do, and equally enjoy blogs you’ll find much joy in this. Find a new blog to read and enjoy.

6. Give yourself a facial

Grab your favorite products and give yourself a DIY facial. Turn on some tunes and just zone out.

7. Mani/Pedi anyone?

Here’s another DIY beauty treat. Choose a nail polish color that speaks to your soul and make it happen.

8. Bake something delicious

While cooking can sometimes feel like a chore, baking can make you smile and help you relax. Select a good recipe for cupcakes, cookies, or tarts and head into the kitchen to whip it up. Make sure you forget about the calories when doing this one!

9. Call your siblings or BFF

Keep the conversation light and fun. Just chat about anything that comes to mind leaving the stressful stuff out. Don’t forget, this time is for you to relax and unwind.

10. Listen to music

Music has a way of making us smile and warming our soul. Tune in to your favorite artists and lose yourself, if only for a few moments.

I hope these tips are beneficial to you in some way. Be sure to let me know some of the ways you move yourself through self-care as we travel this road together. 30 minutes, a promise, and lot’s of love for ourselves. We can do this! We deserve to do this! #SelfCareForAllMamas

The life and times of one Black mama who conquered the world through adoption. This is my story.

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